The process becomes much less mysterious when you divide it into practical steps. First, decide what financially secure means to you and stop treating that preference as something shameful.

  1. Change the places and routines that determine whom you meet.
  2. Learn to distinguish real wealth from display.
  3. Start conversations without waiting to be chosen.
  4. Build attraction through curiosity, warmth and confidence.
  5. Watch how he treats people, money and commitment.
  6. Create a relationship in which both people contribute value.

The full eBook turns each step into specific actions, examples and places you can use immediately.