In my book, I told you about the places you need to go to meet lots of rich men. However, just “being there” will usually not get you to your destination, you need “icebreakers”, i.e. situations or phrases that will get you talking to a rich man.
The following things can be helpful (not absolutely necessary, but helpful) so that you are really sure to be approached:
You dress sexily (but appropriately for the occasion)
You may have an eye-catching detail, such as a bright yellow sun hat or another accessory that people can talk to you about or that makes people look after you. Here too, the eye-catching accessory should of course match the occasion.
You are simply attractive or fashionably dressed
It would be perfect if you look at yourself in the mirror and think “I’m sure I’ll stand out with this!” and strangers are curious about me.
In the event that no man approaches you on his own, there are a few universal ways to strike up a conversation:
Smoking
Yes, it’s unhealthy and I don’t want to encourage you to smoke. But it is useful for making contact. Whatever the occasion, there are usually separate smoking areas. Because of the commonality of the vice and because many smokers go outside unaccompanied and are often asked for a light or a cigarette, smoking areas are always very suitable for making contact. If you want to take the first step, ask an object of your desire for a light. If he doesn’t engage you in conversation, no problem, just go back outside the door in 30 minutes.
Ask for something from the other table
If you are sitting in a catering area, for example, accidentally drop your menu under the table and ask the next table, where your victim is sitting for example, if you can borrow the menu. If you can’t make anything disappear inconspicuously, see if anything is missing from your table: vinegar & oil, sugar, salt, pepper, an ashtray, etc. You can also look at your neighbor’s dish and ask if it’s good because you might want to order it too.
Dance!
At events where there is dancing, it is always easy to make friends on the dance floor. If you have a basic talent for dancing, dance 🙂 Willing men will soon approach you.
Go outside the door for a moment and pretend to be on the phone
At closed events, such as operas, busy men always have to go outside to make phone calls. Go outside and pretend you are calling someone (who is not going). If a suitable man is at the door, he will notice you. It will often be the case that only a few people leave the event briefly and you can quickly strike up a conversation in the intimate atmosphere outside the door. You can also casually ask “Can you just barge in again, or are you waiting for the break?”
Ask for directions to something
Ask how to get to the toilet, where there is a cigarette machine, where a special room is, what time it is, where the nearest cash machine is, etc. If you ask, you will always get a nice answer and maybe a conversation will ensue.
Small talk
Phrases such as “unfortunately we had bad luck with the weather today”, or “but the event is a bit slow today” or “but the queue is long today” or other phrases are a wonderful way to start a conversation, e.g. if you are looked at or smiled at by a man in the queue at the entrance to an event as you walk past or in front of the door.
Conclusion
This article is just a suggestion. If you think about it a little, you will come up with many more icebreakers that can start a conversation.
If you go to a place where there are a lot of millionaires, plan strategically. Before visiting the place, sit down with a pen and a piece of paper and think about the situations in the place where you could meet rich men. This could be in a gym:
In the parking lot
At the check-in
In the class
In the equipment section
In the sauna
At the bar
Or at a horse race:
Parking lot
At the ticket office
At the betting desk
At the bar
On the seat next to you
In the smoking area
At the after-party
Plan the right phrase for each situation and deliberately put yourself in exactly these situations so that you have 5-10 possible opportunities to make contact. Good planning and a little practice will quickly turn you into an absolute pro who can make lots of contacts with rich men day after day.