Hello my dear,
You’re almost halfway there now:
You know that relationships with a nice AND rich man you like make sense
You have specialist knowledge about your plans
You are in the right places
You’ve managed to strike up a conversation
That’s not so hard, is it?
Now you’re sitting there talking and you’re talking. Your only goal must be: He should find you so attractive that he should consider you as a partner. Normal women just start talking and leave their flirting success to luck or their attractiveness.
Not us!
We draw on the findings of psychologists, hypnotists and flirting scientists and are therefore much more accurate than the soldiers of fortune.
Psychologists say that if you want to get a man to find you attractive and consider you as a partner, you have to make him feel better after talking to you than before.
How to make someone feel better during or after a conversation: We have to generate emotions. Emotions always produce a physical reaction and/or make us do something. We want to produce emotions that make the other person want us 🙂
Every person can trigger an emotion or physical reaction with their appearance, body language or what they say:
Just think of what the pitch of your voice can trigger:
You can speak in an erotic voice and turn a man on in the process
You can shout angrily at someone who is then frightened
If you speak firmly, you can convince someone of an argument
Our goal is for his brain to tell him “Take her”
Here’s one of my 12 totally effective flirt boosters to get his brain to want you.
Mirroring
NLP is short for neuro-linguistic programming and deals with communication between people and examines the programming that is created between the brain, language and the body.
An important technique in NLP is the so-called “mirroring”. It has been discovered that when two people like each other and talk to each other, their postures, vocal tones, movements and much more become more and more similar. They “mirror” each other unconsciously.
We owe this phenomenon to the so-called mirror neurons, certain nerves in our brain. These ensure compassion in humans. Mirror neurons are also the reason why we are sad when we watch a sad movie, why we feel pain when we see someone hurting or why we are happy when someone else is happy.
Your task in a flirtation is therefore to discreetly mirror the body language of the person you are flirting with. Don’t get caught out, but imitate fluently, with a time delay and with restraint. A good amount of time to adopt a certain gesture or posture after the other person has done so is 5-40 seconds.
Reach for your glass when the other person has taken their glass
Assume a similar sitting posture
Speak at the same pace and at a similar volume and pitch as the other person
Researchers at Ohio State University have investigated the phenomenon of mirroring: one researcher asked volunteers in a study to evaluate various newspaper advertisements. The researcher mirrored the body language of one half of the test participants and not the other.
During the experiment, the researcher “accidentally” dropped 6 pens. Result: Participants whose body language was mirrored beforehand were 3 times more likely to pick up the pens without being asked than the participants who were not mirrored.
Mirroring is therefore a very powerful principle that makes a big difference in generating positive emotions in a counterpart.
As already mentioned, I have a whole range of other flirt boosters for you 🙂
Mia